Thanks, guuys. I felt really bad as I told them to be pushy and go in there today and ask to see someone and they rang the hossy and they said to come on in and they would get an OB to look over it before clinc however when they got there they were headed off by the Midwife from Hell. My SIl and her DH are beautiful people and far too nice, so they are now quite put off from going in there and very upset by this midwife brushing them off and telling them it is very common and they will have to wait until after the birth.

They have an regular appointment with their midwife at the hossy next Monday so they are hoping to get a better response there otherwise I said they might want to go and see a private OB just to get a second opinion. can you do thei if you are going through the public system? Do you need a referal?