Cool, thank you so much marydean! ALOT of that made sense.
At the time of my dream the whole IVF idea was being spoken about - which tbh really frightened me. DP was being so 'pushy' (not in a bad way) about it saying we HAVE to do it in 6 months cos he is getting older and by the time this and that happens its another year yada yada yada. I guess in a way i felt like he was pushing me to do it but i know its for a good reason, and its not as if I DONT want babies just the ivf idea scared me and I felt so hard done by (if that makes sense) We dont argue, we just talk our issues or whatever is bothering us out
It was me in the long run that had to get used to the idea and be comfortable with the decision. I put things into perspective and am taking each day/month as it comes. If it happens it happens - if not in 6 months time we decide where to go from there
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