When I saw your topic (before I read the thread) I thought "motherhood, nurturing" then reading your post, your worry about the size/shape is maybe that you are worried that you won't be a good mother, that there is "something wrong" (for want of a better word) about your ability to mother & nurture a child.

Good luck with the IUI
Funny you say that, I have never been a baby person. I can't talk well with kids, you know in 'kid language'. But I desperately want a family of my own. I can't wait to watch my child grow up and see what type of person they become. And because I am not clucky like most women I guess I worry that I won't be a good mum.
Thanks