If you find a way to remove bad luck, I'd love to hear it. Not sure I believe in curses etc but DH and I often joke that we must have killed someone in a past life.
Last year my FIL passed away when I was 36 weeks pregnant. DH flew to Scotland for the funeral and arrived back 7 days before DS was born. We thought DS would be a ray of sunshine after the loss of DH's father but at 9 days old DS was rushed to hospital in heart failure and he was disgnosed with a heart condition. DS was in hospital for 9 weeks, 6 in ICU and had two open heart surgeries. We ar incredibly lucky that we got to bring him home as we were only given a 20% chance that he would survive the seco9nd surgery. Ever since then life has been a rollercoaster of illness, hospital visits and drama.

MIL and BIL came out for Christmas last year and ended up causing drama, fighting with each other and eventually snuck out a week early without saying goodbye to us or the kids and flew home to Scotland. DH is mending brisges with his mum but still hasn't spoken to his brother. My sister had a surprise pregnancy and still has no idea who the father is despite testing two guys and at the moment, my grandmother has been admitted to hospital with sudden onset dementia.

99% of the time I feel incredibly blessed to have two babies at home and one on the way. I know too many people who didn't get to take their babies home from cardiac ward, I'm so lucky that I did but sometimes it's just all too much. I'm writing this on less than no sleep though as we are recovering from the whole family having gastro follwed by DS getting HFM. Just consider this a sleep deprived whinge. Lol