He comes and sees the kids almost every day. He baths our daughter and will feed our son and he'll sterilise bottles and ask if l need anything else. But he can't give me what I need. This morning it all unravelled. They were both supposed to leave their marriages except she backed out and is now saying he was the instigator and is trying to work things out with her husband. So my husband has lost everything and ended up getting burnt by the one person he thought he was going to be in love and happy with. Everybody seems shiny and excitong when thry're having an affair.
How sad im nearly in tears as my marriage broke down too...at 7 weeks he was out all the time and didnt give a rats and he got so bitterly distance and verbally abusive i left him ..... 18 months later im divorced ! it was a revolting revolting 12 months for me but i got thru i concentrated on my kids and my baby and went back to work ...
(he see the kids which is a huge help but now has fathered another kids yep 18 months after i left ....)

When he asks you what you need tell him you would've like to be loved cherished and spoiled but he chose to end the marriage so he can support you in raising his children BUT you my dear have to move on .... with the help of counsellors .... and get down to centrelink and get yourself sorted...

Some men are ????


HUgs to you darling girl xx