Hi everyone, I was just wondering if anyone could recommend a really good psychic in Melbourne?? After 14 years together 2 beautiful children, we had our son 4 weeks ago, my husband told me he loves me but is not "in love" with me and wants to separate to divorce. Our son was 3 weeks old when he told me. He says he isn't interested in marriage counselling and once he leaves he's not coming back.... I'm so lost right now. I was wondering if anyone could point me in the direction of a really, really good psychic to get some understanding as to what is going on ?? He says there is no one else but I found photos of another woman on his phone and her children and flowers he had sent her.....
Am so gutted and stressed. My milk has all but dried up and I was starting to do so well We already have a 3 year old daughter....
Please help
Earthmama, I am really, really sorry you are going through this It must be utterly devastating.
I dont know of any psychics sorry, but I wanted to offer an alternative (or, if you prefer, an extra) which I think would be hugely beneficial to you.
I think you should look into counselling just for you. You are going through a period of immense stress at a time when you should be getting support. I think it would be great if you could get some professional support. It doesnt need to cost much. You can go to your gp and explain the situation and ask for a mental health plan. This will reduce the cost significantly.
In the meantime, try to look after yourself as much as you can. Do you have any family or friends IRL who can help.
This is such a crappy thing to happen. I really feel for you
So sorry to hear what you're going through. It must be so incredibly stressful for you right now.
I'm not sure which part of Melb you're located in, but I would highly recommend going to Flying Souls. They are near Nepean Hwy, near Gardenvale Station/North Brighton. My sister sees Libby for readings and we've both seen Emma for healings. They are both nurturing, lovely people. I haven't seen the other therapists - they also offer massage etc. Have a look on their website. Definately, definately recommend Libby for a reading and Emma for a healing. I used to live in Melb but now live over an hour away in the country and still drive to see them. I've seen a few different people over the years and this place is the best.
As Nothing2lose said, maybe also see if you can book in with a regular counsellor for support as well.
I hope you get some insight as to what's going on
Lots of love and strength to you
He's gone. Thank you both for your advice. I'm seeing the mat. Health nurse tomorrow for DS 4 week check up...will get some help there...he really left
Earthmama hugs I couldn't read and not post something.
This happened to a friend of mine after baby number 3. Reach out to your friends and family for support x
Earthmuma I also couldnt read and not respond, nothing we can say will make your world seem right at the moment. how uterly devistating for you and your children. Ask for help from family and friends. I am so sorry you would have to be going through this at such a stressfull time anyway.
Right now a psychic isn't going to help you at all, what you need is to sit down with a counsellor who can help you sort through your feelings/emotions etc.
I really hope you have some close family and friends who can support you right now, especially with a new baby.
Also, maybe speak to your GP about linking in with a psychologist or social worker for counselling. You can get some sessions rebated through Medicare on a Mental Health Care plan for issues such as stress, depression etc.
I think somebody tried to send you a private message, but it didn't work. I think once you've posted 50, people should be able to PM you etc.
Reach out to everybody in your life and don't feel like you need to be 'strong', just get through each day and get as much support as you need. Sending you lots of love
I'm so sorry this has happened.
The pain can be overwhelming at times. Just get thru every minute as best u can. Focusing on your children will keep you busy in the day, but take time for yourself at night.
Be gentle with yourself.
oh I'm so sorry. Like what efjay said, he can't just walk away completely, you've got a child together now. I hope you've got some family support to help you right now. It's hard enough looking after a newborn without the stress that you're experiencing right now. See if your GP can link you in with a good counsellor.
Hugs
Do you have close friends or family around you?
He sounds like a real piece of work, that is so horrible that he would say that to you and just walk away i am so sorry. I hope you have lots of support. Xxx
He can just leave unfort. I'm so sorry to say this.
As long as he pay his child support (agency can collect) and uses a lawyer for his divorce he doesn't have to have anything to do with her. It's horrible and a cowards way but no one can force him to see his children.
I really hope this isn't the case for you but what ever happens its not you fault.
Do you have support? I doubt his family will be very proud of his actions and they may want to stay connected and could be amazing support.
Good psychic in Melbourne
We already have a 3 year old daughter....
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from all of us. I agree with the others. Get someone to talk to and ask family and friends to help if you can.
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