Thanks for all your support ladies - i dont think ive cried so much - its not so much the ring im upset about but the meaning behind it and what DH and I have been through with it

Ella - yes i am feeling pretty horrific, thank you for your vibes im praying they work!, i've even called on my Angels to help me so im hoping when i go to sleep tonight i'll have some more guidance

RhiChiChi - i've turned the car upside down, even took out DD's car set and searched that as i thought it might have come off when i was loading her into the car at the shops but so far nothing - i'm going to go through it again tomorrow with fresh eyes, maybe i've missed something...

its just weird as my ring is not loose, so i dont even know how it came off and no matter how hard i try its like ive lost about 40 mins of time because i remember walking into Coles and i had my ring on (i remember that because i was looking at when i was pushing the trolley) and that was the last time i saw it - when i got home, it was just gone