Gosh I hope this is in the right place, and indeed if it makes any sense whats so ever!!!

So this week has held to major events for me and my family.
-At the beginning of the week DH's grandfather passed away.
-And the week ended with my SIL giving birth to a baby girl 14 weeks early.

To start with DH'd grandfather had been given 3-4 days to live, he lasted 8 days. And he was 92.
the morning that he died I was meant to go out to the nursing home and say my goodbyes. But it never happened.
But that morning I had the most amazing dream. I dreamt that we went out to the nursing home and I went in to sit next to him, as I went in his family members went out into the corridor to give us some space.
He sat and listened whilst I talked. I talked for ages, but what I remember most is I told him that I loved him, I promised to look after his family and that they would be ok. And most importantly I told him it was ok to go if he felt like he needed to. At the end I said to him 'thats ok.' He would always tease me about using that phrase with everything.
He gave me this amazing smile. And I woke up. turns out I woke up at the same time that he passed.
Just before he passed, the nurses asked everyone there to step out to give him the space he needed to go.
this kind of dream isnt too unusual for me, so it doesnt really surprise me that I had it....

Then on thursday night my SIL gives birth to a little girl who seems so strong, and even more developed than most babies of that gestation. And now she has a massive journey on her hands.

I kinda think that maybe he went so that he could guide her into this world and I hope is looking out for her now. (?)


What do you think?
Its been a vaery stragne week or sure, but I think something 'extra' is happening with the whole situation!

Thanks

Justine