Is it just a coincidence??

[Turkish Delight]

I have a deceased friend, who comes and visits me in my dreams every 2 months or so.

I went to a medium/clairvoyant in Augustish 2008 and he came through. He passed on some messages which he wanted to get through to his mother and asked me to tell her, which i did.

The medium asked if we had any problems with lights in our house, in which we did and she said it was him. The rangehood light which we keep on during the night (for the kids) always blew and i mean always. There would be times where it would blow every week, or every forthnight.

I then went to Lisa Williams in September and astonishingly enough he came through there too, however he had brought somebody else with him, and her energy was stronger so the main focus was this other female energy. I am so honestly sure that the male energy was him as all the stuff Lisa said was "him". How he died, where, his humour, his build etc... Oh and she said that he wanted his mum to know that he came through! I haven't been able to tell her as i haven't seen her and i really don't want her to think that i am looney ITMS. Not many people believe in mediums etc...

Well, from that day forth (since August) our rangehood light has not blown, ever! My Dh has even noticed. And, i haven't seen my friend in my dream since. I miss him and i want him to visit me..

Do you think it is a coincidence? Or is that he has delivered his message to me and i have delivered it to his mother, and now he is gone??