Have you tried smudging? That can clear negative energy. I usually do it when i move into a house - not sure if it works outside the house, but you could circle the house.
tashybabe - thanks will def look at those...
Definitely not a local weirdo, my dogs would have attacked anyone STRANGE within a 2 foot radius of DD as they are very protective (not that they bite ppl but you know what i mean) and they bark the 2nd there is a stranger around, so no-one could actually get to my door without me knowing about it, the dogs were happy until whatever i saw did a runner... lol
Also i ran straight to the window and i can see everywhere so if it was an actual person i would have seen them trying to get away.
Well DP has taken DD to bunnings so gonna start tea, see if anyone comes to visit me while i'm home alone...
only just came across this post...how is it going now?
i have to say that i am a little concerned by this one. and like Nae my feeling is that this is a different person. i guess my main concern is from what you have mentioned with your feeling of uneasiness and also, i never really like the ones that watch. honest, i do think it's rude and usually let them know: not in a 'get your freak on and be angry' way, but just a common courtesy 'we all share this space so deal with it' way ITMS. had this one in a house our friends lived in in Fiji. the house over time got a 'heavy' feeling and i would feel rather constrained when visiting as though we were intruding. turns out the person was unusually attached to my friend and found others that were around to be a hassle and interference (this included her DH and DD). Increasingly she (was a young child of about 12ish years i could gauge) became a little more confident in dealing out uncomfortable feelings...and this DID coincide with my friend and her family deciding to move out. so maybe the increase in activity from your visitor has a correlation with plans for you guys to move? maybe this person has been there the whole time (i'm figuring that they have a connection to your DD?) and is slightly concerned about said moves. either way, i think they are overstepping the boundaries (no pun intended ).
keep your ears and eyes out and trust yourself (and your furbabies!), if it does get too uncomfortable at times, i would take yourself and DD out for a bit (also it might be worth checking out some strategies for closing off DD from the visitor): i think the closing of the gates and doors is going too far in its disapproval (of whatever it is unhappy about ITMS).
P.S. it's a good thing that your DH is able to get the visitor to leave, maybe channel some of his energy through the house for when he is not there?
A bit of an update, funny you chose yesterday to write Cassius2 as i was just thinking i really need to update on here.
So i haven't had much time here without DP of a night as he hasn't been working that late and whoever is watching me doesn't like when he is around so there hasn't been much action BUT:
The last time i wrote DP had taken DD to bunnings, i was cooking tea and just had this odd feeling someone was near the lounge, the dogs weren't pacing but they weren't just kicking back relaxing like normal.
I didn't look at the doors when i walked in, just went and sat on the couch and turned the TV off, i felt as if someone was watching me so i just sat and had a bit of a conversation with them.
I told them it made me uncomfortable to be watched all the time and it wasn't polite, if they needed something or wanted to watch over us i would prefer they either came out and showed me what they needed or they watched from a distance.
I told them to stay away from DD and to let the friendly back to watch over her if thats what the problem was.
I got no response, no movement nothing but felt the person had gone and then the dogs were berserk! not 2min later DP pulled in the drive.
Every now and then when i'm tidying of a night i get the feeling someone is outside but they are not close to the house and they are not trying to get in.
Then the other night i felt friendly back in the house, i had to get up to DD in the middle of the night and nearly tripped on something, i was cursing the whole way to her room but then just felt a sudden CALM, it was odd.
I have a few theories i have come up with about my 'watcher' as i have nicknamed him.
* DD was born at home and i think there may be a strong connection with this house. Please feel free to read my birth story for more insighthttp://forums.bellybelly.com.au/foru...ome-birth.html
* I think thats why it has a strong feeling toward DD & I and NOT DP
* DD turned 1 nearly 2 weeks ago and we had A LOT going on
* We started the plans to build etc
I think maybe the connection with myself and DD had the watcher a little upset, maybe now as some things have stalled with the building process and as DD is now 1 and still here it has calmed...
What do you guys think?
Sorry if this makes NO sense what so ever... lol
That makes sense to me. If the watcher was there when you gave birth to your daughter alone in the house, then I imagine he/she/it might feel proprietary towards you both. A bit like dogs get - all protective and territorial. Rather than a calm protectiveness though, the watcher may just feel territorial. It may be scared you'll leave him/her/it. It's good you expressed your boundaries and the watcher is keeping away.
Do you get a sense of the gender? Could it be another woman who wants to stay close to the baby?
Birth certainly creates an enormous amount of psychic energy and babies are a connection between the earth world and the spirit world - they are new fresh from spirit. That's why I believe small children when they do things like predict the gender of unborn children - I think they really do know.
tashybabe - the watcher is a man, i saw him one night at the window playing with DD, scared the crap out of me and he took off.
The friendly one i have NEVER seen only felt watching over us and checking up on us, i think this may be a woman now though, the more i think of it.
I am hoping the watcher has realised the boundaries, i don't mind if he is there or if he wants something but either let me know what it is or **** off.
Hopefully things stay nice and calm, am not sure how our visitors will react when #2 comes along, hope there is no jealousy from them rather than DD!
Well he is watching from a distance at the moment so hope it stays that way, it's still an eery (sp?) creepy feeling but it's better than feeling it at every window and seeing him play with DD.
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