Just another thought...going on the idea that death means change for this life...

Have you noticed your DD has changed recently, or perhaps had one of those 'suddenly grown up' spurts?

I ask because to me it was almost like the 'baby' you thought you were holding, was no longer a baby, or what you thought was your baby... itms? And then your own death shortly after might be a signal for your own inevitable change to bring about a new phase for both of you?

Does that make any kind of sense?