you don't sound like a fruitcake to me, my mum has this kind of thing happen to her with light bulbs. She seems to have taken it a bit further, every car she has had over the last few years has had electrical problems that no-one seems to be able to pin down & the previous owners never had any problems.
IMO (& I am hardley an expert) your energy field is energised & probably increased therefore causing interference & hence overloads of other electrical things like light bulbs.
Has it settled down, gotton worse, did you get any insights etc...?