ok i'm back and I can reply more (sorry a toy turned up ... got distracted )

If she turns up again in your dreams, acknowledge her, let her know that it is ok for her to go onto the next stage and as Inanna says "send her to the light". She was probably attracted to you because you're a mother and she felt a connection because of your DD's name - she just probably wanted somebody to acknowledge her and to show her a bit of love and compassion.