I usually get the deja vu thing too. Something will happen and I will have this overwhelming feeling that I've been in situation before and so I know I have dreamt it in the past. I often think I should keep a dream journal to match all these up but I never get around to it. I have seen a couple of spirits and they were all before kids. In the first house I lived in upon moving out of home, there was a woman and a young child (a boy I think, was never really sure). They used to just be hanging out in my bedroom. I woke up one night, sat straight up in bed and said hello to the child and my exDH rolled over and asked who I was talking to. The other time was after my exFIL passed away. He was hanging around for the week after his death while the family did the daily prayers (rosary) and on the last day we did them with all the doors and windows open so he could fly free.

Since then I haven't really seen anything. I had told my ex-inlaws about it and they were always asking me if I could see him and I just felt a bit uncomfortable about it so kinda tuned it out I guess. Now I sometimes catch glimpses of things and DS points to a particular spot in the house and says "Man!" or "Who's that?" He actually did that this afternoon but kinda seemed a bit anxious and came over to me. I told him to say "Go away" if he didn't want them there. I think I purposely tune most of it out because while I think it's kinda cool to be able to see, I'm also a little bit scared of what/who I might see!

I had a short reading done by email recently and the lady who did it was so accurate with some things, it really surprised me.

maz, your stories have the hairs on my neck standing up!