So sorry to hear of your loss. I know how you are feeling my first pregnancy I went for my first scan at 13 weeks only to be told that the baby had stopped growing arund 10 weeks. I unfortunately had gone alone as DH was working and we thought all was fine as that was what Dr had said (he didn't even recommed the scan) Anyway had a 1.5 hour drive home alone crying my eyes out for my baby that wasn't (plus we had only just told DH family the day before as Dr had said all was ok).

I hear you on the insensitive comments. The things people think they have a right to say are just horrible and I won't repeat them as they don't help anyone. I do think your DH is grieving in his own way. I know my DH didn't show a lot of emotion but I think he thought he had to stay strong for me.

Take care of yourself, good luck with the D&C and for when you start your TTC journey again.