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thread: Another one, when we've already had too many

  1. #127
    Registered User

    Sep 2010
    45

    I'm so sorry to hear this :-( You have had more than your fair share of pain and its time the universe stopped being so cruel. I hope you are coping okay. Big hugs to you.

  2. #128
    Registered User

    Apr 2009
    Melbourne
    534

    hi hon,
    I'm so sorry I didn't know about your most recent losses. I know the pain you are going through, especially when it takes part pf your fertility with it. I just wanted to offer one small ray of light to you. My Poppy was conceived follow the loss of my left tube to an ectopic too. It was our first cycle trying again after we lost twins (ectopic/blighted ovum).

    My FS said the body is quite miraculous in how it deals with the loss of a tube; we don't loss the ovary, the other tube will often swing over and collect the follie from that side.

    I'm so sorry for the heartbreak you are going through. You're been through enough
    Bec xxx

  3. #129
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Feb 2010
    Gold Coast
    2,117

    Hey gorgeous, just checking in to see how you're doing. Sending healing vibes and massive hugs your way.

  4. #130
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jun 2008
    In snuggle land
    4,499

    Thank you. Not doing well today. Hopefully tomorrow will be better. The lead up to Christmas is always hard. Seeing other people get pregnant and birth live, healthy babies when it seems impossible to us is killing me. It's just one bad day though. There are good days too.

  5. #131
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Feb 2010
    Gold Coast
    2,117

    I can't even imagine how hard that must be. I remember the pangs of jealousy and pain after my mc, whilst waiting to TTC. That wouldn't even be one hundredth of what you must be going through. It's so unfair.

    Have you had any further testing or investigation as to why this keeps happening to you? I don't want to pry so if you're not up to talking about it that's okay. Just wanting to offer support and let you know I think of you often. I have little conversations with the universe, and I often ask WHY. and WHEN. So many of us are doing the same thing, all here just waiting for the day you bring your baby home.

    I wish things were easier for you.
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  6. #132
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Hork-Bajir Valley
    5,722

    Re: Another one, when we've already had too many

    i often think about you too L&B. you helped me so much by lending me your hypnobirth stuff. i tried to put as much babydust back into it when i sent it back.
    *hugs* take care of yourself over xmas.

  7. #133
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    Bonbeach, Melbourne
    7,177

    Another one, when we've already had too many

    i often think about you too L&B. you helped me so much by lending me your hypnobirth stuff. i tried to put as much babydust back into it when i sent it back.
    *hugs* take care of yourself over xmas.
    This is me also. I've packed it all back up and am ready to send it back to you, and I thought the exact same thing, how much you've helped other people and how special those books and cd's are, the journey they've been on

  8. #134
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    954

    Giving you massive hugs at what must be an impossibly difficult time for you.

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