I was going to get her name written in the sand but i didn't. I bought an outfit.....I have a special candle i light for her and my other 2 angels. But the main thing i did/do is i created a place for her and the other 2 that i can visit. After i lost her DH took me to this beach (as i was a complete and utter zombie and completely broken) and we walked and talked about her and i just sat on the beach and sobbed and sobbed while he held me. When we go there it's 'her' beach, hers and mine. Does that make sense? Massive i am so sorry this happened to you lovely. I wish you all the best and if you need to talk im here xxx