Kab,
First of all, let me tell you how sorry I am to hear of the loss of your baby girl. My name is Carla, and I'm the other one Tootie mentions in her first post. I just recently (5-23-04) lost my son- I was 21 weeks along. He stayed with us for a little over 2 hours before he passed on. I know how frusterating and depressing everything can be at this time. I don't believe Aunt Flo has showed up yet but it has only been a month Wednesday. Once we get the go ahead from the OB, we will be trying again too...
I'm not sure if this is appropriate to write at this time or not so if I offend anyone, I apoligize. We had our son cremated and I really wanted to do something special with the "cremains". I came across this website that sells urn pendants and they are absolutely beautiful- the woman who sells them is so incredibly sweet too... I don't have the web address on hand but if you do a search on "W.I.T.H." or "Whisper in the Heart" you will find them.
Kab- If you ever need someone to talk with or vent to anytime- don't hesitate to write! It really helps at times like this to talk with people that completely understand what you're going through. This forum is filled with the best women ever!
Take care,
--Carla