thread: Baby shower invite. Was I rude?

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    I do think LS has a good point there. I generally think, for myself, that if I'm feeling that something I've done may have been rude then it probably was - at least to you. You could also try some wording like "this is a tough time of year for me, and I'd hate to bring you down - all the best for the day" and send her another message on the day like "hope today's fun for you!"

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    Yeah, good point..I must admit I was a bit angry/upset that she even sent it.. People that know me, know I am bitter and twisted lol and I don't do baby showers.. If they know me well they should also know that this time of year sux for me.. Why on earth would she invite me?? I'm just being nasty cos I am angry at the situation and I would probably be having a b!tch if she didn't invite me! BTW while I am having a b!tch, I thought baby showers were only for first babies! She's on her 2nd!

    Off I go under my rock now.. Hopefully for a while lol

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    Yeah, good point..I must admit I was a bit angry/upset that she even sent it.. People that know me, know I am bitter and twisted lol and I don't do baby showers.. If they know me well they should also know that this time of year sux for me.. Why on earth would she invite me?? I'm just being nasty cos I am angry at the situation and I would probably be having a b!tch if she didn't invite me! BTW while I am having a b!tch, I thought baby showers were only for first babies! She's on her 2nd!

    Off I go under my rock now.. Hopefully for a while lol
    Try not to be angry. Perhaps hidden in her invitation was a wish for you that your pain will lessen with time.