It makes me so sad to read ur posts It brings back so many awful memories. It happened to me at 9 weeks also but I only found out cos i started spotting. Thank goodness for that though cos I probably wld have trotted off to my 12 week scan expecting a baby only to find nothing. From the first day of spotting it took about 3-4 days to properly miscarry, for me Im glad it happened naturally, I needed to go thru the physical pain as well as the emotional pain to really let go. I think waiting a week or 2 for the d&c is a good idea, if u can handle playing the waiting game.
Please be gentle on yourself, if u do happen to miscarry naturally ur emotions will be all over the place as ur hcg levels drop. I was hysterically crying for 24 hrs straight. It really is a horrible thing to lose something that u want so badly.
Come on here anytime u need to chat, our dhs sometimes arent the best ppl to talk about these kinds of things too. My dh brought home a few friends after work the night after i miscarried, i cldnt believe it. The funny thing is hes not someone that has friends over and hasnt done so since, it sounds awful but i think he probably just needed to escape the sadness i was bringing into our home.. IYKWIM. With saying that though make sure u support each other, he wld be hurting as well, they just deal with it all differently. Us girls need to talk talk talk to feel better!
Oh sweetie I wish you didn't have to go through all of this its so unfair. Please if you need to talk we are always here for you. Inbox is always open xxx
Kirley so sorry this is happening. I decided last Friday that I would have a d and c for my mmc but my body took over on the weekend and I'm thankful for that. I hope your body is the same. Either way know that there is a whole community of ladies supporting you here. Big hugs to you.
Thanks so much for all your support and encouragement. xx I really appreciate it.
had a bit of an bad morning with other mum's at playgroup asking if i was pregnant and when i said no they said 'are you sure' and kept pestering me so i had to tell....but an uplifting afternoon with a new phone and owed payments to me that pay off our credit card from centrelink so that was a nice end to the day. Still not as great as having a baby in my belly but it definitely made my week a bit better!
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It brings back so many awful memories. It happened to me at 9 weeks also but I only found out cos i started spotting. Thank goodness for that though cos I probably wld have trotted off to my 12 week scan expecting a baby only to find nothing. From the first day of spotting it took about 3-4 days to properly miscarry, for me Im glad it happened naturally, I needed to go thru the physical pain as well as the emotional pain to really let go. I think waiting a week or 2 for the d&c is a good idea, if u can handle playing the waiting game.
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