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  1. #1
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    Nov 2013
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    Confused !!

    Hey everyone I'm 10 weeks & 3 days pregnant my pregnancy has been difficult for me I been having alot of morning sickness , depression, anxiety I work & I clean & cook after I get home I'm drainned my ultrasound all been normal my check ups have been fine it's my first baby btw I just been confused I been so scared to have a misscarage or for my baby to died inside me ... idk how to get this thoughts out my head I have no one to talk to about this so if u momys can help me thank youu !

  2. #2
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    Dec 2008
    Brisbane, QLD
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    that early tiredness is really full on. Add in all your extra stressors and Im not suprised you're feeling drained.
    Do you have a partner/ husband? Is there some things they can do to ease the burden on you? Other family?
    Are you seeing someone for your depression & anxiety?

    hun. Its ok to leave the mess (its not going anywhere ) and just have a sandwhich for dinner if its too much to cope with at times. Be gentle on yourself and dont expect too much. Its hard work growing babies.

  3. #3
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    Nov 2013
    3

    Thank you so much ! Yes my husband hes a big help too but at times I feel bad letting him do all the work & no I haven't talked to my doctor about it I have an appointment this month ill be sur eV to let him know , it just sucks feeling depressed & with anxiety it has to do alot with my family they moved to a different state & I dont speak to them I guess I feel lonely in times

    I just hate thinking about having a misscarage or the baby to die inside cuz im so depressed & sad thank u for reaching out to me ♥

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    Dec 2008
    Brisbane, QLD
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    Oh honey. Your mental state wont cause you to miscarry. Miscarriage can be caused by lots of things. 99% are well beyond our control and nothing we do will change the outcome.
    Im really glad you have someone to help you out. An understanding partner makes a huge difference. Let him take over some stuff for a while. It isnt forever and you will almost certainly have other times in your lives where he will need you to reciprocate.
    Does he know how you're feeling?
    Im sorry you dont have family support.

  5. #5
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    Nov 2013
    3

    Yeahh ur right I'm a first mommy so I don't really know much lol but yeahh thanks for ur words helps me alot yeahh he does know how I feel hes really supportive thank god .

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    Dec 2008
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