that early tiredness is really full on. Add in all your extra stressors and Im not suprised you're feeling drained.
Do you have a partner/ husband? Is there some things they can do to ease the burden on you? Other family?
Are you seeing someone for your depression & anxiety?

hun. Its ok to leave the mess (its not going anywhere ) and just have a sandwhich for dinner if its too much to cope with at times. Be gentle on yourself and dont expect too much. Its hard work growing babies.