thread: Confused and waiting

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Aug 2013
    3

    Confused and waiting

    Hi....I went in for a scan yesterday and was told my baby measured only 6 and half weeks and could not detect a heartbeat....I believed I was almost 10. I had blood tests done immediately for Hcg levels. My doctor rang me this morning and told me they were very high and wants me to wait another week to retest. I still feel pregnant and have had no signs of cramping or bleeding. I have had two miscarriages in the past year so I'm terrified! Waiting and not knowing is mental torture.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jan 2013
    Geelong
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    Hugs J-Cee, waiting & being in limbo is incredibly stressful. I hope you get some news soon so you know either way.

  3. #3
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    Oct 2006
    Adelaide, SA
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    Hi J-Cee,

    Welcome to bb.

    Are you sure on your dates?

    The waiting game can be very difficult, fingers crossed for the outcome you're after.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Aug 2010
    810

    Are you defiantly sure if you're dates?

    I hope you get some good news.

  5. #5
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    Jan 2011
    Perth
    3,268

    If you are only 6 and a half weeks a heartbeat may not be detectable yet. Some ultrasound clinics won't do scans until 7 weeks for that reason as it causes undue trauma.

    I hope things work out well- the bit knowing is very painful.

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Aug 2013
    3

    Thank you

    Thanks everyone for your well wishes.....I'm pretty sure about the dates give or take only a couple of days I have been ovulating late but that doesn't really allow for the time frame! The us is indicative of my conception date! Waiting and not knowing is the worse....every time I go to the bathroom I anticipate seeing something but there is nothing, it is messing with my head because it is all I can think about!

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Aug 2013
    3

    Well I started spotting brown blood on Friday and was told to stay in bed and get my blood test on Wednesday unless I start bleeding heavily! I am cramping especially in my lower back and all down my legs and have constant headaches! I still feel pregnant. I'm concerned though and not sure if I should be getting checked...thoughts?

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Aug 2010
    810

    Are you going tomorrow for bloods..i would go and get check then....hope its not bad news...hugs

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Jan 2011
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    Hope the bloods are good for you.

    Thinking of you
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