Don't know whats going on...or not

[*LittleMissSummer*]

Can i please ask that you wait and get a second opinion. You are SO early that it could be just too early to see anything properly.

If it is a miscarriage i am so sorry, as having just gone through one myself it is awful and please take care.

[CruisingTurkey]

I am really sorry to hear that, LittleMissSummer. really I am. breaks my heart to think of all the people in pain out there when it should be the easiest thing in the world to achieve.

I have had a little bit of bleeding (still not much) and the cramps come and go. Will see how I go Thursday but I am being realistic (against my wishes!!) that my little lodger didn't stick around. Its strange though, I feel like I actually knew him. weird.

CT

[Floweryfields]

Can i please ask that you wait and get a second opinion. You are SO early that it could be just too early to see anything properly.

If it is a miscarriage i am so sorry, as having just gone through one myself it is awful and please take care.

Yes, that - there could be many reasons that there is no heart beat yet - doesn't mean that the baby isn't viable at all! PLease don't take the word of one medical person as the truth. Leave it a couple more weeks to be sure - there is not going to be any harm done by waiting - if it's a miscarriage then your body may well lose the baby naturally anyway.
I have a friend who was told that there was no heartbeat in her bub like you, he is now a nearly 2 year old healthy boy!

[Elocin]

I agree with what everyone else has said hun. Get another scan done.

Not to freak you out, but I had a m/c in May and didn't have any bleeding or cramping (still haven't )... everyone is different and everyone's bodies react so differently when they are put under stress like this.

I had 4 early scans and didn't see a heartbeat until the 3rd one. It was at the fourth that we found out we'd lost the baby at 8w.

I completely understand you being resigned to the fact that your little one may be gone and for that I'm so sorry. I really hope the outcome is different for you.

When you find that manual, I'd love to take a peek

Big hugs

[MamaPan]

Ditto to what the others sait CT - but lots of hugs to you if you do turn out to be having a mc.
Is it possible to find a dt it is easier for you to communicate with"?

[Diamond Girl]

Hi Im sorry you are going through this. As the others said, I really think you need to wait because it might just be too early to see a heartbeat.

I hope it all turns out well and isnt a m/c.

[Amaunet]

How are you? I've been thinking about you and hoping you little lodger is still growing for you