what a day. Went for the final scan and no heartbeat. I saw my lodger on the screen but definitely no heartbeat.
Had the D & C about 2 1/2 hours later. They dont muck around here, thats for sure. I was freaking out as my partner was at work and no way he could make it back. I asked the nurse to double check with the doctor that he was 100% sure there was no heartbeat. She was lovely and did speak to him again for me. He said 100% not viable. He was pretty much 100% at the last scan but wanted to leave it a bit longer just in case. I feel much better for asking twice though.
In and out in 30 mins and at home on the couch 45 mins after that. Its like it never happened (or should I wait til the painkillers wear off before I make that comment ??)
Just wanted to thank you all for caring. I was just telling a friend of mine how you guys saved me from losing my mind during all this. YOu really are wonderful people.
I have my fingers firmly crossed for better outcomes in the future.
im sorry for your loss. I hope you are ok and pain doesnt kick in when them pain killers wear off.
lets hope you are back here with some wonderful news soon.
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