Feeling sad

[Diamond Girl]

Just feeling overwhelmed today. My friend had her baby today. She is the fourth baby born in the last 3 months to one of my close friends. All us five girls were pg and all due within 3 months, well now the last baby was born today, due just 2 weeks after my angel was due and it really, really stings. I know it shouldnt, but its killing me today. Im so happy for all my friends, they deserve their babies but I cant help feeling cheated that Im the one going back to my Obs on Thursday to find out if the next lot of testing will reveal any reason for my recurrent m/cs. Im still not over the fact that the cromosomal testing showed a perfect baby girl, but my stupid body couldnt hold on to her.

Feeling so lost tonight, when I should be over the moon for my gorgeous friend. This just sucks.

[MummaSue]

It really does suck. Be kind to yourself, you're allowed to feel the way you do.

[Miss.B]

It sure does suck hun I'm sorry your little one couldn't stay. No matter how much joy you feel for your friend, it really does hurt because you are supposed to be pg now. Just sending you super squeeshy hugs and letting you know that it's OK to feel this way. We need to grieve for out little ones no matter what goes on around us.

[luna moth]

Ouch. There's nothing wrong with feeling sad; it's a really sad time.

I hope you get some answers.

[Kazzo]

hun, I am so sorry for your loss. It is okay to be sad. Your not sad at your friend or her baby, just the situation and you have every right to be. Take it easy on yourself. I hope you get some answers from your testing.

[Yas]

Massive babe I'm so sorry...... It's so hard not to get answers...... My chromosonal testing showed a perfectly healthy baby girl too It would sting, go easy on yourself sweetheart xxxxxxxxxx

[Diamond Girl]

Thanks everyone. You are all so lovely. Had a big cry and feeling a bit better now I guess.

[tempus moriendi]

I"m so sorry for your loss.

[tellytubby]

Oh diamond
Always here to listen, I'm so sorry you're having a bad time. I can completely understand your pain, I'm in a similar situation as I watch my good friends belly grow. Its hard to put on a happy face when all you really want to do is cry.... Cry on my shoulder.. I'll probably cry with you... *squeezes you tight*
mwah x

[Tegam]

oh that is very sad and very unfair.......

[mummytotwo]

I'm in the exact same boat & it does suck. Had a friend with a big, fat belly visiting today...
I put on such a brave face but deep down.....Hugs to you DK - may things get easier for you xxxx

[nlegrady]

I am sorry for your loss I have a couple of pregnant friends... sometimes I want to punch them in the face - I too, am hoping it gets better with time