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thread: The Goodbye Journey - long post and maybe tmi for some...

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Nov 2004
    Chasing Daylight...
    2,034

    Deb thanks so much for sharing your (and bubby's) story. I pray your memories of him will be forever precious and sweet and that you will be able to mourn and honour him in a way that is meaningful to you and your family.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Nov 2004
    Giving the gift of life to a friend..
    4,264

    I cannot express in words anything that would do justice to your journey!

    I cannot see the screen for tears!

    You & your precious babies are my thoughts!!!!

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    kirsty Guest

    Deb thank you so much for sharing your story. It was so touchingly written & I am sitting here in tears as I can relate to so much of how you were/are feeling atm. It isn't fair that we have to go through this & my greatest wish for you is that soon you are sharing with us the birth story of a healthy live baby.

    You are in my thoughts & my heart atm.

  4. #4
    *TamaraP* Guest

    Deb - I read this yesterday, but didn't know what to say or do. But then I realised, just writing this post is doing enough.
    Your post put tears in my eyes, and I felt as though I had lived it with you.

    lots and lots of cyber (((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))

    We are all thinking of you and here for you when you need us.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Sep 2004
    1,551

    Deb, thank you for sharing your experience in such a poetic yet horrific way. Such an awful experience, so delicately recorded. I hope that writing it provided you some help, some peace. Im sure it will be able to offer the same to others out there too.

    take care of you...

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Nov 2005
    LA LA Land
    292

    Deb, thank you for sharing your story. My heart goes out to you. I too chose to go through the births of my Angel Babies alone. So many people said how could I do it without my husband. But as with you, I needed him to be there for our other children. This was a path I had to travel alone.

    We are stronger, different people now. I do not feel worse off. I think we both see the world through new eyes now.

    Take care and many hugs.
    Debbie

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Nov 2005
    Bright
    972

    Deb - I don't know the words to describe how i am feeling after reading about your angel. I'm saddened by your story, but at the same time feel uplifted by your courage and strength.

    You are a truly inspirational woman and your story was so beautifully written.

    You are in my thoughts and I pray that you will again hold a live baby in your arms.

    Thank you for sharing....

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Feb 2005
    Perth
    508

    Deb, your story is amazing from both sides, the sorrow of losing & the determination from having lost.

    Thankyou for sharing.

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    BellyBelly Member

    Jan 2006
    Coburg -Melbourne
    655

    Thankyou for sharing such intimate details of your experience. You have brought tears to my eyes yet made me realise there is still hope. If you can come through all that and still be looking towards a future baby then so can I. I hope all your dreams are fulfilled very soon. You sound like you have a woderful, caring family and medical team behind you

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Aug 2005
    sydney, australia
    369

    Deb, I admire your strength and courage so much, to go through what you have and then to share every aspect as you have must have relived all the memories for you, your determination to give birth to a living baby is inspirational after what you have been through and and i know that it will happen for you again.

    :flower:

    Shell

  11. #11
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
    tasmania
    241

    oh Deb again i am so sorry what a sad journey it has been i wish there was something i could say huge hugs you are so strong

  12. #12
    Registered User

    May 2004
    1,451

    Deb, I am so sorry you had to go through this again. My heart goes out to you and your family at this terrible time. I had tears streaming down my face after reading your post. You are amazing how much strength and courage you have and defintiley don't deserve this grief and pain. I wish there was something I could do to take away all that pain you have. I too believe you will birth another healthy baby one day soon.

    Take Care of yourself and thank you for sharing your story with us.

    Loadsa Love
    Kazz
    xoxoxo

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Mar 2006
    Victoria, Australia
    150

    Deb this is such a moving post, it bought back some memories for me and all the pain we go through. Sending heaps and heaps of love and hugs for you and your hubby.

    Shazz
    xxx

  14. #14
    Registered User

    Feb 2005
    1,244

    Deb,

    You write beautifully but I am so sorry for your terrible loss.

    Mel

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Jan 2006
    Melbourne
    398

    Deb,

    I sat here staring at the screen for god knows how long waiting for the choking feeling in my throat to ease. My tears just keep flowing for you and your beautiful family. I dont even know what to say after reading your sad words. That piece of writing would have to be one of the most beautiful yet saddest things i have ever read in my life. You are such an amazing and strong woman and truly an inspiration. Without personally knowing you, you have given me the hope and strength i need to assist me though my pregnancy. Your words have touched me in a way i cannot explain. You will always be in my thoughts! Please know that my prayers are with you Deb.

    love Amber
    xoxoxox

  16. #16
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
    Hallett Cove- S.A
    762

    What a story, you wrote it like i was there, i felt what you felt, i cried for you, i held your hand, i snuggled into the purple rug too, and i too am stronger now because of you.
    I am sorry of your loss, may God and your delicate baby boy and girl watch over you and your family and praise you for allowing an angel to enter our world, and to play with our angel babies.

    The biggest hugs go to you and your family.

    Hoping that we get to share the 9 month journey of your beautiful healthy bundle of joy soon enough.

    Take Care
    Praying for you

  17. #17
    MPM and Platinum Member

    Mar 2004
    perth,Australia
    2,302

    I just happened to come across your story tonight deb,i am so sorry you lost your babies.Your story has touched my heart and i admire you for sharing it with everyone.
    You have a gift in writing,i will not forget this.
    I hope life has another story for you,one with you holding a baby surrounded by loving family.Till then..

  18. #18
    Registered User

    Apr 2004
    Sydney, NSW
    565

    Oh Deb, there are just no words...


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