thread: Honestly never thought I'd be here... again..

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  1. #1
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    Nov 2008
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    TT - thinking of you today. I hope your DH is able to be there to support you and someone else could look after the kids. I've had a natural m/c and while the advantage is that they say you can start trying straight away, I did go through a mini-labour type thing and wound up in the ED with blood loss. It was not a pleasant experience by any stretch of the imagination. But as many have said - I don't think it matters how it happens, it is always an awful experience and something no one should have to go through.

    Your friend will understand. We m/c around the time two of my friends found out they were pregnant - and the same night another friend announced their pregnancy. I was happy for all of them but felt left out, sad and angry all at the same time as being happy. I still count down to my EDD (5 Aug 2011), even though I have another healthy little soul on board. It's a pain that will never go away - and my practical DH doesn't quite get that.

    All the love in the world to you. Thinking of you today. I send you healing for your body and your heart.
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    May 2007
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    Wannabemum... my first angels EDD was the 5th of August too....

    I had the D&C ladies. I just couldn't continue on.. constantly waiting. It was pretty horrible. I went in, so so scared. I cried, and cried. The anesthesist had to keep wiping my tears for me ..

    Thinking about it a lot tonight. So worried I made the wrong decision.



    I can't believe my baby is gone

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    Oct 2007
    Middle Victoria
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    thinking of you as you heal

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    BellyBelly Life Member - Love all your MCN friends
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    oh TellyTubby, i'm so sorry, you grieve all you need to, keep venting.

    i don't any of my words will help you, nothing could, but i am thinking of you, wishing you find a way to remember your bub, in a way that can eventually give you some relief, some peace. I'm so sorry.

    it's so damm unfair

    big hugs sweetheart.