TT - thinking of you today. I hope your DH is able to be there to support you and someone else could look after the kids. I've had a natural m/c and while the advantage is that they say you can start trying straight away, I did go through a mini-labour type thing and wound up in the ED with blood loss. It was not a pleasant experience by any stretch of the imagination. But as many have said - I don't think it matters how it happens, it is always an awful experience and something no one should have to go through.
Your friend will understand. We m/c around the time two of my friends found out they were pregnant - and the same night another friend announced their pregnancy. I was happy for all of them but felt left out, sad and angry all at the same time as being happy. I still count down to my EDD (5 Aug 2011), even though I have another healthy little soul on board. It's a pain that will never go away - and my practical DH doesn't quite get that.
All the love in the world to you. Thinking of you today. I send you healing for your body and your heart.
Last edited by WannabeMum; June 29th, 2011 at 11:52 AM.
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Wannabemum... my first angels EDD was the 5th of August too....
I had the D&C ladies. I just couldn't continue on.. constantly waiting. It was pretty horrible. I went in, so so scared. I cried, and cried. The anesthesist had to keep wiping my tears for me ..
Thinking about it a lot tonight. So worried I made the wrong decision.
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oh TellyTubby, i'm so sorry, you grieve all you need to, keep venting.
i don't any of my words will help you, nothing could, but i am thinking of you, wishing you find a way to remember your bub, in a way that can eventually give you some relief, some peace. I'm so sorry.
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