I am not sure of the exact details, but my friend has just told me that she has lost her baby girl at 26 weeks pregnant. Her baby was born still after what was a completely healthy, uncomplicated pregnancy so it was a massive shock, and she is rightly devastated.

My question is; i obviously want to support her through this terrible time in her life but im really unsure how to go about it. She lives in another state to me, so i unfortunately cant be there for her physically.

Ive sent her flowers with a few words of sympathy, and have told her that im always here to lend an ear, but i feel like that isnt enough... any other suggestions on what i can say/do?

thanks so much, Sarah