I can't sleep anymore

[TeniBear]

it's understandable to be scared - your post isn't pointless at all... Get it all out


Sent from my iPhone so forgive the speelung misstacks

[mummydreamer]

MrsS, your post isn't pointless at all, so please don't feel that way. unfortunately they are very real and valid feelings for you and for a lot of mothers. I understand your fear of boys, i think if i were to have another boy, i would be freaking out as well. the only thing i can suggest, is what about talking to the hospital or your GP about some kind of counselling? DH and i were talking about it last night for me now, but it just kind of occurred to me reading your post that the time i would probably need it the most was when i fall pregnant again....just an idea? other than that, i got no real advice but just massive massive xxx

[Charlotte91]

Thinking of you.
You have every right and reason to be scared.

[KimB]

I'm having the same fears. I am having a little girl and hearing about all the new angels is not helping my state of mind either. I have been constantly thinking "what if that happens to me" You are not alone in your fears. hun

[mummajj]

aww its totally understandable that you are feeling this way. i too have been affected by the recent tragedies. i check my son soooo many times while he is sleeping. it might seem impossible,but maybe taking a little BB break until you're in a better, more positive headspace...? otherwise we are all here to listen to your worries. (which are not pointless)

[~clover~]