thread: i didnt think it would hurt this much

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    skybie, I had a missed miscarriage that was (I now know) a blighted ovum, the baby as such never formedeven though I got as far as 9 wks, the pgcy as such never made it past 4 wks.
    I struggled with feeling like it wasnt a legitimate miscarriage ITMS? I know its different to what has happened in your circumstances, but as soon as we know we are pregnant, like a PP said, there is that potential, that is just so suddenly gone, taken from us with such shock.
    Big hugs beautiful Girl, we are all here for you if you need to talk, vent, cry. xxx
    Last edited by Olive; May 16th, 2010 at 03:07 PM.

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    I'm so sorry you're going through this hun. A loss really *is* a loss, we all feel that terrible emptiness and pain. We not only lose a baby, we lose our entire future with that child too. Our other children lose a lifetime of being with that sibling. We grieve for what never was and what will now never be I'm so sorry for your angel. Take care of yourself.

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    Skybie I'm so sorry for your loss.

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    Im thinking about you a lot Skye Hope you're getting lots of love from DH and your girls

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    I'm so sorry you're going through this sadly, that sense of loss and hurting will always stay in your heart, but slowly, day by day, gradually it will ease. You're in my thoughts

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    I am so sorry for your loss hun
    Any loss is heartbreaking, fly free sweet angel
    Take care and have lots of extra cuddles with your girls and DH xxoo

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    I never matters how far along you are the pain of loss is still present.

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    oh sweetheart .
    I don't think you can be prepared for what it brings. Give yourself the space to feel what you feel.