Cruemum..I'm really sorry. it's awful when you know what's happening but there's nothing anyone can do to stop it. With both of mine I 'passed' them myself. I still needed the D&C after the second one 5 weeks ago, but the baby passed out and DH and I picked 'him' (I just have a feeling) up and looked at him carefully and then wrapped him up in cotton wool.

It does take time to feel okay about it, but it's defintely possible to feel positive again. Like any form of grief or bereivment (sp), there are good times and bad times.

Take care, Lisa xx