Hi. I just joined this site and have just experienced a MMC. I was meant to be 11wks and went for my 1st ob appointment only to find out the baby was lost at 7-8wks. I now realise how devastating it feels, the intense sadness. I feel for all those who have been through this too. It's such a shock and you try to hard to find reasons but there are none.
I didn't realise how physically painful it was going to be and then after that subsided the emotional pain set in.
Sending all my heartfelt sympathy to anyone who has lost their little ones.
Hun, I am so sorry for your loss. It is such a hard and emotional time losing such a precious little creation. Please be kind to yourself at this time and allow yourself to grieve this little Angel bubba. Big hugs.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a blighted ovum and had to have a D&C at 10 weeks 4 days. I too didn't know untill I had a scan. Take the time to grieve.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your little one my situation was very similar, and the shock and pain and sadness is so very real. Be gentle on yourself and give yourself time to grieve. I am sorry it is under such sad circumstances you have come to BB but you will find you are surrounded by many people who sadly know how you're feeling and can help you get through one day at a time
Thankyou all for your kinds words and thoughts. I keep thinking I need to get back to work quickly but haven't found the energy to go in yet. My boss has been very understanding though. I feel a bit like I've let everyone down as my family were all so excited about this pregnancy. I know that's crazy but right now that's what's going thru my head.
I know all these feelings will subside, I'm just in a hurry for them to ease. Thanks again for allowing me to write down my feelings, I think it helps to know you are not alone and feelings are 'normal'.
I feel the same. Like I've let everyone down. This one would have been DH first baby and his parents first grandchild so i can feel your pain. It's perfectly normal to feel that way so don't beat yourself up over it. It does get easier.
just had a missed miscarriage
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my situation was very similar, and the shock and pain and sadness is so very real. Be gentle on yourself and give yourself time to grieve. I am sorry it is under such sad circumstances you have come to BB but you will find you are surrounded by many people who sadly know how you're feeling and can help you get through one day at a time 
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