I'm sorry you lost you baby I think the things that are said by those so called professional must effect that little bit deeper. When I had a D&C after we found out we lost our bub at the 12 week scan (the one I lost in your Belly Buddy Group) the anethetist (sp) at the hospital said to me right before I got on the table "people should only be having 1 or 2 kids anyway, the world population is growing too fast and there are already too many people living on the planet" As you can imagine I was shattered and wanted to scream at him. If I wasn't already so fragile I would have.