Even though I did get to see Ianto's face properly, if he'd been an early miscarriage rather than a stillbirth, he would have been the same in my mind - through my entire pregnancy I was sure I was having a boy even though we wanted a girl, and I said through it all that "the baby" would look like his dad but with my nose. Exactly what happened.

I'm half-half about wanting our other kids to look like him. I'd love to know what he would have looked like growing up, but I want them to all have their own "look", KWIM? (I want them all to have my nose though , DH's nose isn't as cute as mine )