Hi Berenice,

So sorry you are going through this. I know where you are coming from as i am going through something similar at the moment (4 weeks of bleeding on and off and counting) and had a similar experience last year (3mths of bleeding post miscarriage.) I too am totally over the whole thing and feel like I can't move on until it's over. I made the choice to 'go natural' this time because I had 3 d & c's last year (in relation to a rare complication of that miscarriage which caused persistent 'retained products'- awful expression, sorry) and didn't want to have any more procedures done so soon. But I wanted to give you some reassurance. I didn't find the d & c's to be a bad experience in themselves. I had sympathetic doctors and nursing staff. I remember nothing from the time i was sedated to the time i woke up in recovery, and i needed no pain killers afterwards. You will be ok. oh, and in my experience i was ok the next day so if you feel as good as i did you can probably go keep your friend company if you want to. But if you are tired or whatever and want to rest then be kind to yourself.