It's hard to know what to say, I find that setting up a food roster and dropping food at the door for as long as the community can, speaks volumes of love to the people in mourning. Perhaps you could get the women of your group on board to set up a food roster. I had a friend who lost a little one last year, our community was able to feed them for 6 weeks, they appreciated it so much.
Again Glenny I am so sorry for the family but I am also so sorry for you and your mothers group. So hard to know what to do. But you are such a good friend and the meals you are cooking are real and very helpful.
This is so sad. A friend of mine lost her daughter last year in very tragic circumstances it will be 12mths this Thursday. She has told me what has meant the most to her is the people who still call, text & visit after those 1st few months. The people who don't treat her like she will break & aren't afraid to say are you ok.
Just be there & always remember it's better to say something than nothing out of feeling unsure of what to say.
Take care. Life can be so cruel.
Update time- My friend contacted me yesterday to let me know she is 14 weeks pregnant!! Obviously she is feeling a lot of mixed emotions but I am so happy for her and her hubby that she is expecting this little rainbow baby!! I know bubs big brother will be watching over them all!!
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