Thinking of you xo
Don't be embarrased hun, we are all entitled to our thoughts and feelings and sometimes different terms etc can bring up varying emotions in each of us... I agree with you the term probably feels safer emotionally for a lot of people and is a socially acceptable term I guess?

As I said your entitled to your opinion and of working through your emotions how you need to hun and if you don't like to use that term, then you don't have to. Take Care.