Hi Smamfa - Oh nooooooooooooooooooooooo! Gosh I can't believe it mate I'm really really sorry. I had 2 chems last year, got BFP's on the POAS and then a day later bleeding. What exactly is the difference between an chem and early m/c? I just assumed a chem was where it fertilized but didnt implant is that right? What are you going to do now, you're not having any fertility treatment are you?? When you test get them to check your progesterone - as it is sounding very much what happens to me. I cannot sustain a pregnancy without supplmentation, you may be the same. I hope next month is yours sweetie. xxxx
AFM - I'm struggling, I hate this waiting game, I'm on edge every day, every cramp, every back ache, every twinge I expect bleeding to follow, I am not testing until Tuesday now because Monday is a public holiday here grrr - if I even make it that far anyway. Every other non pregnant cycle I've had on progesterone I've never lasted to testing day. The only positive I can find at the moment is that I am 12dpo today which is the longest luteal phase I've had in a long time so at least I know the progesterone is keeping AF away long enough if egg was to fertilize. I had bloods done Tuesday to check my levels and my progesterone was looking perfect, so that's a good start to know the supplements are doing their job. The nurse did tell me if I was to get pregnant I'd be upped to 3 a day, why they don't just do that anyway because given my past history I have found on pregnant cycles by the time they up me from 2 to 3 it's too bloomin late. This journey and process just sucks for people like us, I don't get how people can just TTC/get pregnant and not have anything to worry about. I wish!!!
Im brand new to the forum and not sure if im in the right place...
My Partner and I have been TTC for a few months are experiencing our first miscarriage. I have seen that they happen so often and seem to be quite common in early pregnancy, I just didnt think it would happen to me. Its shattering and so hard and I just feel so disappointed in my body. I tried so hard to look after myself and be as healthy as I could but couldnt prevent it happening. I only had my first obstetrician appt yesterday and saw out little implanted egg on the screen and was told everything looked great. How quickly that can change...
The OB has said we can try again straight away so hopefully the bleeding doesnt go on for too long. Its awful seeing it happen infront of me and not being able to make it stop.
It feels a bit better being able to write it all out because sometimes its hard to say out loud. Its hard talking to our families about it because i feel somewhat shamed as silly as that sounds.
And smamfa I'm sorry to read of your losses. I hope you can have your happy pregnancy soon.
I am so sorry that you (and all the girls) have had to join this thread, sorry to hear of your loss
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