Dianne

Oh thanks for the hugs and sympathy. It's amazing being in touch with people who have been through it before. Sorry I didn't respond earlier - I don't have a smart phone and enjoy being outdoors. This weekend spoke to a girlfriend who'd been through an abortion. It's only the people who have experienced a similar event who really understand what it's like, like you.

Others mean well but have no idea of the legit grief or depth of feeling women have for babies who aren't born yet. That's what I'm finding anyway.

... Thanks! ahh a monastery on the top of a hill in China would be great right now (to have my own space I mean)....