Hi every one. It has been a long time since I was last on here, years. So I'm not sure if Iam in the right spot or if there is somewhere more relevant to post.

I think I may be having a miscarriage and don't know where else to go. This is where I usually am when I miscarry but usually when TTC and I am done having babies so now I'm a bit lost.

I got my O pains about a week ago, some more sharp pains a few days ago and really bad sharp pains tonight followed by bleeding. I've also had really bad swelling the last few days and normally I only swell during pregnancy but not until a lot later and I've also got shoulder pain that has been getting worse over the last couple days. It scares me because they can be signs of ectopic pregnancy but then again, I wouldn't even be 4 weeks along if I am pregnant.

I'm RH- and so now not sure if I am supposed to do anything not. Like I'm not far enough along to get a + pregnancy test (no I haven't tested but I don't get even a faint line until I am late) so would I even need an injection? If yes, then does not wanting any more kids change that answer?

I'm really not sure what to do. Like obviously book a doc appt but what do I tell her? That I'm bleeding a week early and getting pains in my pelvis, shoulder and hey if you didn't notice I am suddenly a swollen blimp, that too?

I'm sorry if I have upset anyone but I need someone to talk to because I don't know what else to do