I am perplexed.

In this day and age surely, if Dr's and scientists can create, fix, diagnose all sorts of things, why can't they work out why miscarriages occur??

A friend was recently told that despite 6 years of TTC, naturally and assisted, and paying Dr's, Fert specialists etc, that they still have no idea why she can't have a sticky bubs.

My mind boggles as to why we still get told 'it just wasn't meant to be' and that we have to risk ourselves, both physically and emotionally, to keep trying for a least three times, before testing can be done.

Sadly for my friend she suffered greatly, and nearly list her life with her last miscarriage, and now decided her dream of having a child of her own is shattered.

Is it just me that thinks this?