Hi Spring Angel, sorry I confused you. I've just been madly bashing away at my keyboard getting my whole story out (and eating leftover chocolate easter bunnies) without stopping to think about whether I was making much sense. It's bl**dy complicated - what with a gp, an fs and an obs! Throw in the progeterone issue and it's even more complex!

Your post birth checkup sounds none too pleasant. I wish that his staff could have been more thoughtful at such a tough time. Sometimes little things mean so much.

I'm so pleased that you have found a great ob for your pregnancy. Again, thanks so much for sharing your story with me. If DH and I are lucky enough to get pregnant again I think that I'm going to be extra anxious since I've had an m/c and will need an obs who is cool with that.