My missed miscarriage was also a D&C. Found out at 13 weeks I had lost my baby at 11 weeks. I was given the option of waiting it out for nature to take its course, or have the D&C. I have had both a "natural" miscarriage and a D&C and I honestly couldn't tell you what is easier to deal with - they both have emotional and physical repercussions.

I'm so sorry you have lost your baby, and wish you luck with whatever you decide.