it's never easy to know what to do to honor the memory of an angel baby - especially one that you have lost early and those around you seem to discount very soon after the loss. i have had a tattoo done on my back for two of our angels, i wear a bracelet 24/7 for the third - we have a design in mind for a tat for the other two. they are simple, but permanent markers for me in their honor - and when people ask, i'm not afraid to say why. we also have roses in the garden for each of our angels - no one would know that they are special in a garden with over 200 plants - but WE do...
it doesn't matter how early you have lost your angel - you have still felt that connection from the moment you suspect you are pregnant, and a love for that bubba that grows every single day - the pain of the loss is still there
only you will know how to honor your angel baby - but don't feel like you should just move on - if you don't allow yourself to process that grief properly, it will be with you and impact you more as time goes on. you'll never be able to forget, but you may be able to find peace. for me, those angels gave us the answers to have our precious girl...
Powelly - I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for your words and sharing your storey, I can truely understand where you are coming from.
BG - You hit the nail on the head - ppl dismiss my loss due to it being early. To me we lost a baby - no matter how early it was. I am getting a tattoo for Bella on my foot soon and I was thinking of adding a shooting star at the top - to symbolise Bellas sibling that will forever be looking over her. The more I think about it the more I love that idea.
I dont feel like I can even say anything to DH - he has moved on in his own way and I think it is a shut book for him. Its hard for him because I was going through loosing bub and he was helpless and kind of detached. I can talk about my feelings and he wil listen and comfort me but cant really understand.
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