im so sorry to hear that, hugs to your sister i lost a baby in 2009 at 7 weeks, and i was devastated. unfortunately, there was nothing anyone could say or do that would make it hurt less or make me feel better. your sister will just need to grieve in her own time and in her own way. as long as you let her know that you're there for her as much as she needs, im sure that will mean a lot to her. and i agree with another poster, maybe offer dinner or just a shoulder to cry on? poor thing, hope she doesn't end up needing an operation.....