Thank you all for your support i really appreciate it.
I went to My Gp this morning and he confirmed that i have miscarried,
I'm not quite sure what to do now, i had my first miscarriage last Feb but i didnt know i was pg and it was alot easier to deal with IYKWIM but this has just devastated us, we are going to stick to our original plan though and TTC #3 next year which i hope will result in a healthy bub.

Thanks again for your support, i just thought i would give you a quick update, i will be back on in a couple of days when i'm thinking more clearly and i'm not in so much pain