Goldilocks

I know your pain only too well- as do most of us here on BB. My 12 week scan revealed no heartbeat - bub dead at 6 weeks and 4 days. How do you put that into words and even worse how do you tell family and friends.

You are so right when you talk about the loss of innocence - i had never heard of anyone having such problems in my world until it happened to me and my BB friends told me of their individual experiences knwong that there was someone out there that knew how I felt helped. Plse dont feel alone it sounds like you have the love of a good man. If you need to move then do it, concentrate on making you both well again. The mental scars are worse than any physical ones. After my D and C I just sat on my couch for 10 days no shower no nothing ( poor DH) in my PJ's. Refused all those reaching into my void to try and help me with empty words.

I will be thinking of you
It does get a little easier as the months pass - allow yourself the time you require to grieve
Huge hugs to you both
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