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  1. #1

    Nov 2007
    Earth
    4,434

    Nasty VENT that's eating me alive

    I'm so SICK of seeing preg/birth announcements and pictures of baby bumps. I just don't care, I don't wanna see them. I've gotta hide from BB and FB because they're fricken everywhere. Doesn't anyone remember that I'm supposed to be having my baby soon? Why hasn't everyone elses world stopped the way mine has?

    Honest to God, if one more person gives me some inane comment trying to get me to feel better, I'm gonna lose it. Just accept that I'm upset, give me space to deal with it. I'm tired of feeling embarrassed and swallowing down my grief because it might offend or embarrass someone. My baby was a person too, just as deserving as consideration.

    I'm so angry that I don't even know if it was a boy or a girl. I can't even give it a name. In the eyes of the world, I have nothing. And I have less every day.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    In a cloud of madness.
    4,053

    No words just big huge
    Vent away

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Member
    Add Party-of-five on Facebook

    Sep 2008
    bunbury WA
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  4. #4
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Sunny Qld
    14,682

    I wish I could do some magic trick or wave a magic wand to give you what you want

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    Bonbeach, Melbourne
    7,177

    Don't be afraid to offend people with how you feel. It's valid and it's real. TBH if anyone got offended about you not wanting to see preg belly pics etc, I'd be shocked

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
    5,235

    I understand your pain - a much younger friend just smsd a pic of her engagement ring...I am nearly 35 and have never had a serious relationship, so hun, I totally get your anger, totally.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Feb 2009
    3,407

    Oh honey...

    I'm so, so sorry that you're going through this

  8. #8
    Registered User
    Add Khaleesi on Facebook

    Feb 2007
    Wonderland
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  9. #9
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    In Paradise
    2,022

    I hate all the updates on facebook too, vent away,

    You have every right to grieve anyway you need too, hope you have support from Hubby

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    Jan 2008
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  11. #11
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Cloud nine :D
    6,309

    Hugs xoxoxox

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Geelong
    3,438

    babe, you are allowed to feel angry or upset and I can totally understand your feelings about seeing pregnant bellies, I felt exactly the same.

    Regards,
    Dianne
    Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
    Trisomy 13

  13. #13

    Oct 2010
    Baldivis, WA
    2,873

    I've just inboxed u keike. Xx hope my suggestions helped honey ...


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  14. #14
    Registered User

    May 2008
    ...where jumping on the bed is mandatory!
    2,225

    sending my thoughts and hugs to you and your precious little angel baby.

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Jan 2006
    Qingdao, China
    1,196

    Went away darling, that's what we are here for. Sadly, most of us understand your grief & we are all here to just listen & be there for you. xx

  16. #16
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
    6,772

    Keike - oh my lovely girl I am sorry you are feeling that way, but you know what? You can feel how ever you want, they are your emotions and your feelings so please don't worry you will offend anyone. I agree that sometimes time away from FB and BB are required to keep sane...I know you can only be happy for everyone else for so long before you want to thump your head against the wall, stamp your feet and feel ripped off thats it not you. Hugs babe I haven't got anything else for you even though I feel similar some days its never the same for everyone xxx

  17. #17
    Registered User
    Add helle on Facebook

    Sep 2008
    Bunbury, Western Australia
    3,963


    Been there, hun. sorry you're feeling like dogs balls xx

  18. #18
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    4,895

    *hugs*

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