Nasty VENT that's eating me alive

[Joeve]

Keike - oh my lovely girl I am sorry you are feeling that way, but you know what? You can feel how ever you want, they are your emotions and your feelings so please don't worry you will offend anyone. I agree that sometimes time away from FB and BB are required to keep sane...I know you can only be happy for everyone else for so long before you want to thump your head against the wall, stamp your feet and feel ripped off thats it not you. Hugs babe I haven't got anything else for you even though I feel similar some days its never the same for everyone xxx

[helle]

Been there, hun. sorry you're feeling like dogs balls xx

[RhiChiChi]

*hugs*

[AwesomeFoursome]

[MummaSue]

There are no words honey, so I'm giving you huge marshmallow squishy

[Laranna]

*hugs* and I'll join maz in the poo throwing.

[Manhattan]

No words hun, just here for you

[~StarBright~]

Stuff everyone else, until they have stood in your shoes they have no right to tell you how to grieve or feel or how to deal with your loss! ANd be sure to tell anyone who is giving you a hard time exactly that- its not like you stubbed your toe, you lost your child, tell THEM to suck it up and if they cant support you through this then to bugger off.

As for how you feel about your bub.. maybe pick a name that is neither boy or girl, something that symbolises how you feel about your bub, something to represent him or her for you to be able to reference your baby other than "the baby we lost.." maybe that might help you to feel like your giving your bub an identity- it certainly wont bring him or her back, but it might help to give your little bubba a name xxoo Please PM me if you need to. xxoo

Zahra... stillborn at 35 weeks
Darren lost at 18 weeks

[~Hestia~]

thinking of you.

[Jahzara]

Sending you lots of and

Be kind to yourself !

Thinking of you xoxo

[Tascha]

Yell and Scream for as long as you need. We are all here to listen. Just listen.
Huge hugs.

[~Lashes~]

big vent away. i agree with maz, stinky poo to them!

[Lily Dust]

Another with no stupid and upsetting words that only bug you more. Just an enormous and heartfelt

[Peach*]

Huge huge huge hug to you****

[Rainbow_Mumma]

sending you big hugs, i do understand how you feel ive felt the same way many, many times and yes i am one of those who is posting my belly pics on fb and everything but thats my way after i lost my son at 25 weeks and was left with really nothing of him i cherish every moment now and thats my way of clinging to a "perfect life"
Anyway enough rambling just theres 2 sides to everything and i hope that didnt come across the wrong way or anything because you have every right to feel the way you do.

[~TT40~]

*hugs*

[Kazbah]

/oh hun ....

[Bumperstump Cummerbund]

Thank you everyone, y'all mean a lot to me I wasn't trying to pick out anyone in particular, most of the time I love seeing all your preg bellies, you're gorgeous!

I spent most of the day looking up unisex baby names, and printed out a list to go through with Professor. We already have some baby names picked out for girls and boys, and we've decided to have a 'tradition' where one name is unusual and one name is from the Bible. So after discussing it for a while today - and I'm surprised how quick we came to an agreement, the names just jumped out at us - the names of our 4 garden babies are:

Finley Elkanah
Devon Tekoah
Quinn Micaiah
Addison Shiloh

I'm going to have a look at some commemoration websites and order something with their names, maybe some bears or something. They're so much more real now, they're people because they have names. I feel calmer now